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Parent resources

Get your bearings.

A milk (dairy) or egg allergy diagnosis comes with a lot of questions. These are the resources we lean on — curated by parents, not paid placements.

Facebook groups we recommend

Other parents are the fastest way to get real answers — which brands changed recipes, which restaurants actually listened.

These are private groups, so you'll need to request to join. If they ask how you found them, tell them Allergy Safe USA sent you.

Label-reading basics

Read every label, every time — recipes change without warning.

What U.S. labels must tell you

  • Packaged foods regulated by the FDA must name milk and egg in plain words — in the ingredient list or a "Contains: Milk, Egg" line.
  • "May contain" and "made in a facility with…" warnings are voluntary. A missing warning doesn't mean no cross-contact.
  • "Non-dairy" isn't the same as milk-free — some non-dairy products contain milk proteins like casein.
  • "Lactose-free" is not milk-free. It still contains milk protein.

Words that can mean milk or egg

Milk: casein, caseinate, whey, lactalbumin, lactoglobulin, ghee, butter, curds, nougat.

Egg: albumin/albumen, ovalbumin, lysozyme, globulin, mayonnaise, meringue. "Egg substitute" products often contain egg.

Not a complete list — ask your allergist for one.

School & daycare pointers

Handing your child to someone else's kitchen is the hardest part. Start these before the first day.

  1. 1. Get a written emergency plan

    Ask your allergist to fill out a Food Allergy & Anaphylaxis Emergency Care Plan (FARE offers a free form) and give copies to every caregiver.

  2. 2. Ask about epinephrine

    Where is it stored, who is trained to use it, and does it go on field trips and the bus?

  3. 3. Talk through milk and egg specifically

    Milk cartons at lunch, egg in baked treats, craft supplies (egg cartons, some paints), and classroom celebrations.

  4. 4. Ask about a Section 504 plan

    U.S. public schools may provide a 504 plan that puts accommodations in writing. Ask the school's 504 coordinator.

Informational only, not medical or legal advice. Always follow your allergist's guidance.

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